Introduction



Nepali weddings are a vibrant blend of cultural and religious traditions, reflecting the country's rich heritage. These ceremonies are not just about the union of two individuals, but about families and communities coming together. Intricate customs and rituals add depth and meaning to the celebration, making it a memorable event for everyone involved.


Pre-wedding rituals

Sagai (engagement)



The engagement, or betrothal, is the formal declaration of the couple's intention to marry. It usually involves the exchange of rings and is attended by close family members.


Horoscope matching (Chevaar)



Chevaar involves matching the horoscopes of the bride and groom to ensure their compatibility. An astrologer plays a vital role in this process, marking auspicious dates and times for the wedding.


Formal Meeting of Families (Purohit Yatra)

Before the wedding, the families meet formally, often facilitated by a purohit (priest). This meeting is important to discuss the details of the marriage and ensure that both families are in agreement.


Wedding Preparations

Choosing the Wedding Date (Tithis)

The wedding date is chosen based on astrological calculations so that the marriage is prosperous and harmonious. These dates, known as dates, are carefully selected by the family priest.


Invitations and Announcements

Once the date is decided, the families send out invitations and make announcements. Traditionally, this includes beautifully designed cards that reflect the cultural beauty of Nepal.


Main Wedding Ceremonies

The Wedding Day

Bride Preparations



On the wedding day, the bride wears traditional attire, usually a red sari, which symbolizes purity and fertility. She is also decorated with intricate jewelry and henna designs.


Groom's Procession (Janti)



The groom's procession, known as the janti, is a grand event. The groom, dressed in traditional attire, arrives at the bride's home with his family and friends, often accompanied by music and dancing.


Groom's Welcome (Swagat)



The groom is given a warm welcome by the bride's family, which includes washing his feet and presenting him with sweets and flowers.


Wedding Ceremony (Swayamvara)

Exchange of Garlands



During the swayamvara, the bride and groom exchange garlands as a symbol of acceptance and respect.


Sacred Fire Ritual (Agni Sakshi)



The couple then performs Agni Sakshi, a sacred fire ritual where they take vows in front of the fire, which is considered a witness to the marriage.


Tying the Saptapadi



The Saptapadi involves the couple taking seven steps together, each step representing a vow they make to each other for their married life.


Blessings after the ceremony



After the main ceremony, the couple receives blessings from the elders, who wish them a happy and prosperous married life.


Post-wedding rituals

Bidaai (Bride's farewell)



Bidaai is an emotional moment, when the bride bids goodbye to her family and leaves for her new home with the groom.


Bride's welcome at the groom's house (Griha Pravesh)



Upon reaching the groom's house, the bride is welcomed with rituals that signify her new role and responsibilities.


Post-wedding feast (Reception)



The post-wedding feast is a grand celebration, where both families come together to celebrate the union. It is accompanied by a lot of traditional Nepali cuisine and joyous festivities.


Conclusion

Nepali wedding traditions are a beautiful blend of cultural, religious and family customs. They embody the essence of community, love and unity, making each wedding a unique and unforgettable experience.